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Aroma of Life | Different Disposition, Different Outlook

๐ŸŒปAroma of Life | Different Disposition, Different Outlook๐ŸŒป Every association of life calls for the exercise of self-control, forbearance, and sympathy. We differ so widely in disposition, habits, education, that our ways of looking at things vary. We judge differently. Our understanding of truth, our ideas in regard to the conduct of life, are not in all respects the same. There are no two whose experience is alike in every particular. The trials of one are not the trials of another. The duties that one finds light are to another most difficult and perplexing. Marked diversities of disposition and character frequently exist in the same family, for it is in the order of God that persons of varied temperament should associate together. When this is the case, each member of the household should sacredly regard the feelings and respect the right of the others. By this means mutual consideration and forbearance will be cultivated, prejudices will be softened, and rough points of character smoothed. Harmony may be secured, and the blending of the varied temperaments may be a benefit to each. — Mind, Character, and Personality Vol 2, 615-616.

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์ด ๋ธ”๋กœ๊ทธ์˜ ์ธ๊ธฐ ๊ฒŒ์‹œ๋ฌผ

์–ด๋Š ์„ ์ˆ ์ง‘ ๋ฒฝ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‚™์„œ/์ผ๋ณธ

์ผ๋ณธ์— ์ฃผ์žฌ์›์œผ๋กœ 23๋…„ ์‚ด๋‹ค์˜จ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ 12์›” ์ดˆ์— ์ผ๋ณธ์œผ๋กœ ์—ฌํ–‰์„ ๊ฐ”๋‹ค๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋Š ์„ ์ˆ ์ง‘ ๋ฒฝ์— ์žˆ๋Š” ๋‚™์„œ๋ฅผ ์‚ฌ์ง„์œผ๋กœ ์ฐ์–ด์„œ ๋ฒˆ์—ญํ•ด์ค€ ๊ฑด๋ฐ ์›ƒ๊ธฐ๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์˜๋ฏธ๊ฐ€ ์‹ฌ์žฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„๊ณผ ๊ณต์œ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‘ ์ค„ ์ฝ๊ณ  ์›ƒ๊ณ , ๋‘ ์ค„ ์ฝ๊ณ  ๋ฌด๋ฆŽ ์น˜๊ณ ... ์™€, ๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ์กฐ๊ธˆ์€ ํ†ต๋‹ฌํ•œ '๊พผ'์ด ๋„์ ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฐ ๊ฑฐ ๊ฐ™์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.  ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์— ๋น (ๆบบ)์ง€๋Š” 18์„ธ  ์š•ํƒ•์„œ ๋น (ๆบบ)์ง€๋Š” 81์„ธ  ๋„๋กœ๋ฅผ ํญ์ฃผํ•˜๋Š” 18์„ธ  ๋„๋กœ๋ฅผ ์—ญ์ฃผํ–‰ํ•˜๋Š” 81์„ธ  ๋งˆ์Œ์ด ์—ฐ์•ฝํ•œ 18์„ธ  ์˜จ๋ผˆ๊ฐ€ ์—ฐ์•ฝํ•œ  81์„ธ  ๋‘๊ทผ๊ฑฐ๋ฆผ ์•ˆ๋ฉˆ์ถ”๋Š” 18์„ธ  ์‹ฌ์žฅ์งˆํ™˜ ์•ˆ๋ฉˆ์ถ”๋Š” 81์„ธ  ์‚ฌ๋ž‘์— ์ˆจ๋ง‰ํžˆ๋Š” 18์„ธ  ๋–ก๋จน๋‹ค ์ˆจ๋ง‰ํžˆ๋Š” 81์„ธ  ์ˆ˜๋Šฅ์ ์ˆ˜ ๊ฑฑ์ •ํ•˜๋Š” 18์„ธ  'ํ˜ˆ๋‹น/์••'์น˜ ๊ฑฑ์ •์˜ 81์„ธ ์•„์ง ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋Š” 18์„ธ ๋ฒŒ์จ ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ ๊ธฐ์–ต็„ก 81์„ธ  ์ž๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ๊ฒ ๋‹ค๋Š” 18์„ธ  ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€ ์ž๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š”  81์„ธ. ———-!———!—— ๋ชธ์—์ข‹๊ณ  ์ธ์ƒ์— ์ข‹์€ ํ”ผ์ž ์—ดํŒ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋“œ๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณ„์‚ฐ์€ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ—ˆ๋ฆฌํ”ผ์ž ๊ฐ€์Šดํ”ผ์ž ์–ด๊นจํ”ผ์ž ์–ผ๊ตดํ”ผ์ž ํŒ”๋‹ค๋ฆฌํ”ผ์ž ์ฃผ๋ฆ„์‚ดํ”ผ์ž ๋‚ดํ˜•ํŽธํ”ผ์ž ๋‚ด์ธ์ƒํ”ผ์ž ๋‚ดํŒ”์žํ”ผ์ž ์›ƒ์Œ๊ฝƒํ”ผ์ž ์˜ค๋Š˜๋ถ€ํ„ด ์‹ ๋…„๊นŒ์ง€ ๋Š˜ ์›ƒ์Œ๊ณผ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•œ ์ผ๋งŒ ๊ฐ€๋“ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.**

๐ŸŒถ ๊ณ  ์ถ” ์žฅ  ๐ŸŒถ

๐ŸŒถ ๊ณ  ์ถ” ์žฅ  ๐ŸŒถ ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ์— ๊ด€ํ•ด์„œ ํŠน๋ณ„ํ•œ ์ฒดํ—˜์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค. ๋œปํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ๊ฐˆ๋น„๋ผˆ๊ฐ€ ๋ถ€๋Ÿฌ์ ธ ์‘๊ธ‰์‹ค์— ์‹ค๋ ค๊ฐ”์„ ๋•Œ์˜ ์ผ์ด๋‹ค. ํ•œ๊ฐœ๋„ ์•„๋‹ˆ๊ณ  ์—ด๊ฐœ์”ฉ์ด๋‚˜ ๊ณจ์ ˆ๋˜์–ด ๊ผผ์ง๋‹ฌ์‹น์„ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ณ  ์•„ํŽธ์œผ๋กœ ํ†ต์ฆ์„ ๊ฒจ์šฐ ๊ฒฌ๋””๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ํ˜ˆ์••์ด ์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€๊ณ  ํ˜ˆ๋‹น์ด ์˜ฌ๋ผ๊ฐ€ ํ˜ผ์ˆ˜์ง€๊ฒฝ์— ์ด๋ฅด๋‹ˆ ๋ณดํ†ต์˜ ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค.   ์•„๋‚ด๋„ ์–ด๋–ปํ•ด์„œ๋“ ์ง€ ๋‚  ์‚ด๋ ค๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ   ์ •์„ฑ์„ ๋‹คํ•ด ์Œ์‹์„ ํ•ด์™”์ง€๋งŒ ๋ชจ๋‘๊ฐ€  ํ—›์ˆ˜๊ณ ์ผ ๋ฟ์ด์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜ ๋˜ํ•œ ์ง‘์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„  ํ˜ผ์ž ์‚ด๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๋ฉด ์ฒœ๋ฒŒ์„ ๋ฐ›๊ฒ ๊ธฐ์— ์—ด์‹ฌํžˆ ์Œ์‹์„ ๋จน์œผ๋ ค ์• ๋ฅผ ์ผ์ง€๋งŒ ๊ตฌ์—ญ์งˆ๋งŒ ๋” ํ•  ๋ฟ์ด์—ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฌํ–‰๋‹ค๋‹ ๋•Œ ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ ๋‹จ์ง€๋ฅผ ๊พ€์ฐจ๊ณ  ๋‹ค๋‹ˆ๋ฉฐ ํ–„๋ฒ„๊ฑฐ์— ๋ฐœ๋ผ๋จน๋˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ๋‚˜์„œ ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ์„ ๊ฐ€์ ธ๋‹ค๋‹ฌ๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€ํƒํ–ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ์„ ์ฃฝ์— ๋„ฃ์–ด ๋จน์œผ๋‹ˆ ์‹ ํ†ตํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ž˜ ๋„˜์–ด๊ฐ€๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ทธ ๋ง› ๋˜ํ•œ ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€๋ง‰ํ˜€ ๋ถ€๊ธ€๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฑƒ์†๊นŒ์ง€ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•ด์กŒ๋‹ค. ๋•๋ถ„์— ๋ฌธ๋ณ‘์˜ค๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋งˆ๋‹ค ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ ๋‹จ์ง€๋ฅผ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์˜ค๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋žŒ์—  ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ ๋ฒผ๋ฝ์„ ๋งž์„ ์ง€๊ฒฝ์ด ๋˜์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ ํ›„๋กœ๋Š” ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ ๋‹จ์ง€๊ฐ€ ๋‚ด ์‹ํƒ์— ์ฃผ์ธ์ด ๋˜์—ˆ๋‹ค.   ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ์— ๋ฌด์Šจ ์„ฑ๋ถ„์ด ๋“ค์–ด ์žˆ๊ณ  ๋ฌด์Šจ  ์ž‘์šฉ์„ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€๋Š” ๋ชฐ๋ผ๋„ ์‹ ํ†ตํ•˜๊ธฐ ์ง์ด ์—†์—ˆ๋‹ค. ์†Œํƒœ ๊ฐ™๋˜ ์ž…๋ง›์ด ๊ฟ€๋ง›์ด์š”,  ๊ตฌ์—ญ์งˆ๋„ ์ž ์ž ํ•ด์ง€๊ณ  ๋Š๊ธ€๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋˜  ๋ฑƒ์†๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ณ ๋ถ„๊ณ ๋ถ„ ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ๋ง์„ ์ž˜ ๋“ค์œผ๋‹ˆ ๊ณผ์—ฐ ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ์˜ ์œ„๋ ฅ์ด ๋Œ€๋‹จํ•˜๋‹ค. ๋‚ด ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ์นœ๊ตฌ๋“ค์ด ๊ฒจ์šธ๋งŒ ๋˜๋ฉด ๋‹จ๊ณจ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ณจ๊ณจ๋Œ€๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฐ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€  ๋ญ”์ง€๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ณ  ์ง€๋‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ๋‹ค.  ๊ทธ๋“ค์ด ๋‚ ๋ณด๊ณ  ๋„ˆ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ๊ธฐ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ ์•ˆ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ๋ƒ๊ณ  ๋ฌป๋Š”๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋•Œ๋งˆ๋‹ค "๋‚ด๊ฐ€  ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊น€์น˜ ํŒŒ์›Œ์•ผ.  ๋„ˆํฌ๋“ค๋„ ๊น€์น˜๋ฅผ ๋จน์–ด๋ผ." ํ•˜๊ณ   ์ž๋ž‘์„ ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ ์ด์ œ๋Š” ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ์˜ ํšจ๋Šฅ์ด ๋˜ ํ•˜๋‚˜์˜ ์ž๋ž‘๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด๋ฆฐ ์•„๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‹ฌ๋ž  ๋•Œ ํ˜ธ๋ž‘์ด ๋‚˜์˜จ๋‹ค ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋š ๊ทธ์น˜๊ณ , ์ˆœ์‚ฌ ์˜จ๋‹ค ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋š ๊ทธ์น˜๋“ฏ์ด ๋ฑƒ์†์ด ์•™ํƒˆ์„ ๋ถ€๋ฆฌ๋ฉด ๊ณ ์ถ”์žฅ ๋จน๋Š”๋‹ค  ํ•˜๋ฉด ์กฐ์šฉํ•ด ์งˆ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋‹ค.  ๊ณ ์ถ”๋Š” ๋‚จ๋ฏธ์™€ ์•„ํ”„๋ฆฌ์นด๊ฐ€ ์›์‚ฐ์ง€๋ž€๋‹ค. ๊ณ ์ถ”์˜ ๋งค์šด ๋ง›์€ ์•Œ์นด๋กœ์ด๋“œ์˜ ์ผ์ข…์ธ ์บก์‚ฌ์ด์‹  ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด๋ž€๋‹ค. ์ด ์บก์‚ฌ์ด์‹ ์ด  ์ž๊ทน์„ ์ฃผ์–ด ๋ฐœํšจ์ž‘์šฉ์„ ํ•ด์„œ ๊ฐ๊ธฐ ์—ด์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์œ„๋„ ์ž๊ทนํ•ด์„œ ์œ„์•ก ๋ถ„๋น„๋ฅผ ์ด‰์ง„ํ•ด...

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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€ ๋งˆ์Œ (์‹ค ํ™” (ๅฏฆ่ฉฑ)) " ํ—ค์•„๋ฆด์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€์˜ ๋งˆ์Œ !" ๋‚˜์˜ ๊ณ ํ–ฅ์€ ๊ฒฝ๋‚จ ์‚ฐ์ฒญ์ด๋‹ค. ์ง€๊ธˆ๋„ ์ฒฉ์ฒฉ์‚ฐ์ค‘์— ์ƒ๋‹นํžˆ ๊ฐ€๋‚œํ•œ ๊ณณ์ด๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ๋„ ๋‚˜์˜ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๋Š” ๊ฐ€์ • ํ˜•ํŽธ๋„ ์•ˆ ๋˜๊ณ  ๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋„ ์•ˆ ๋˜๋Š” ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋Œ€๋„์‹œ ๋Œ€๊ตฌ๋กœ ์œ ํ•™์„ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ๋‹ค. ๋‚˜๋Š” ๋Œ€๊ตฌ ์ค‘ํ•™์„ ๋‹ค๋…”๋Š”๋ฐ ๊ณต๋ถ€๊ฐ€ ์ •๋ง ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์‹ซ์—ˆ๋‹ค. 1ํ•™๋…„ 8๋ฐ˜์—์„œ ๋‚˜์˜ ์„์ฐจ๋Š” 68/68, 68๋ช… ์ค‘์— ๊ผด์ฐŒ๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ๋‹ค. ์ง€๋…ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฌ์šด ์„ฑ์ ํ‘œ๋ฅผ ๋“ค๊ณ  ๊ณ ํ–ฅ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋Š” ์–ด๋ฆฐ ๋งˆ์Œ์—๋„ ๊ทธ ์„ฑ์ ํ‘œ๋ฅผ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜๊ป˜ ๋‚ด๋ฐ€ ์ž์‹ ์ด ์—†์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌดํ•™์˜ ํ•œ์„ ์ž์‹์„ ํ†ตํ•ด์„œ ํ’€๊ณ ์ž ํ–ˆ๋Š”๋ฐ, ๋งจ ๊ผด์ฐŒ๋ผ๋‹ˆ...! ๋ผ๋‹ˆ๋„ ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ๋ชป ์ž‡๋Š” ์†Œ์ž‘๋†์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ๋„ ์•„๋“ค์„ ์ค‘ํ•™๊ต์— ๋ณด๋‚ผ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ํ•œ ๋ถ€๋ชจ๋‹˜์„ ๋– ์˜ฌ๋ฆฌ๋ฉด ๋„์ €ํžˆ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ์žˆ์„ ์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ์—†์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ž‰ํฌ ์ง€์šฐ๊ฐœ๋กœ ๊ธฐ๋ก๋œ ์„ฑ์ ํ‘œ๋ฅผ 1/68, 1๋“ฑ์œผ๋กœ ๊ณ ์ณ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๊ป˜ ๋ณด์—ฌ ๋“œ๋ ธ๋‹ค. ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๋Š” ์ดˆ๋“ฑ ํ•™๊ต๋„ ๋ชป๋‹ค๋‹Œ ๋ฌดํ•™์ด๋ฏ€๋กœ ๋‚ด๊ฐ€ 1๋“ฑ์œผ๋กœ ๊ณ ์นœ ์„ฑ์ ํ‘œ๋ฅผ ์•Œ์•„์ฐจ๋ฆฌ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•  ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ๋‹ค. ๋Œ€๊ตฌ๋กœ ์œ ํ•™ํ•œ ์•„๋“ค์ด ์ง‘์œผ๋กœ ์™”์œผ๋‹ˆ ์นœ์ง€๋“ค์ด ๋ชฐ๋ ค์™€ ๋งํ–ˆ๋‹ค. "์ฐฌ์„์ด๊ฐ€ ๊ณต๋ถ€๋ฅผ ์ž˜ํ–ˆ๋”๋‚˜ ? ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๊ฐ€ ๋งํ–ˆ๋‹ค. "์•ž์œผ๋กœ ๋‘๊ณ  ๋ด์•ผ์ œ, ์ด๋ฒˆ์—๋Š” ์šฐ์งœ๋‹ค๊ฐ€ 1๋“ฑ์„ ํ–ˆ๋Š”๊ฐ€๋ฐฐ...!" "์•„๋“ค ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ์ž˜ ๋’€๊ตฌ๋จผ, 1๋“ฑ์„ ํ–ˆ์œผ๋ฉด ์ž”์น˜๋ฅผ ํ•ด์•ผ์ œ!" ๊ทธ ๋‹น์‹œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ง‘์€ ๋™๋„ค์—์„œ๋„ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊ฐ€๋‚œํ•œ ์ง‘์ด์—ˆ๋‹ค. ์ดํŠฟ๋‚  ๊ฐ•์—์„œ ๋ฉฑ์„ ๊ฐ๊ณ  ๋Œ์•„ ์˜ค๋‹ˆ, ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๋Š” ํ•œ ๋งˆ๋ฆฌ ๋ฟ์ธ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์ง‘ ๋ผ์ง€๋ฅผ ์žก์•„ ๋™๋„ค์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค ๋ชจ์•„ ๋†“๊ณ  ์ž”์น˜๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ ๋ผ์ง€๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์ง‘ ์žฌ์‚ฐ๋ชฉ๋ก ์ œ 1ํ˜ธ์˜€๋‹ค. ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ง‰ํžŒ ์ผ์ด ๋ฒŒ์–ด์ง„ ๊ฒƒ์ด์—ˆ๋‹ค. "์•„๋ถ€์ง€ ~ !" ํ•˜๊ณ  ๋ถˆ๋ €์ง€๋งŒ ๋‹ค์Œ ๋ง์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๊ฐ€ ์—†์—ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ ๋Š” ๋ฐ–์œผ๋กœ ๋‹ฌ๋ ค๋‚˜๊ฐ”๋‹ค. ๋“ฑ ๋’ค์—์„œ ๋‚˜๋ฅผ ๋ถ€๋ฅด๋Š” ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋“ค๋ ธ๋‹ค. ๊ฒ์ด ๋‚œ ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฐ•์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์„œ ์ฃฝ์–ด๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ๋งˆ์Œ์— ๋ฌผ์†์—์„œ ์ˆจ์„ ์•ˆ ์‰ฌ๊ณ  ๋ฒ„ํ‹ฐ๊ธฐ๋„ ํ–ˆ๊ณ ... ์ฃผ๋จน์œผ๋กœ ๋‚ด ๋จธ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ฅ์–ด ๋ฐ•๊ธฐ๋„ ...